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In the middle of the night, I had to get up to go to the bathroom, and during the trip I injured my back even more so than it was before. I was pulling myself off the toilet with the handicap bar ever so slightly, and all of a sudden I felt a shooting pain up my spine and saw white lights. I fell back on the toilet and screamed out HELP! I called the nurse and for the next 20 minutes, they tried to persuade me off the toilet and into bed, and finally after about 40 minutes, I realized the pain wasn’t going to get any better and I would have to muscle through and get to my bed. At this point, the pain was so sharp and excruciating in my back, I thought I broke my spine. It was a pain I’ve never felt before. Anytime I tried to move up or on my side, it just made the pain worse.

Wednesday, by morning time, I had already seen about 10 different doctors, who had asked me the same set of questions over and over again. The medication that they had me on prior to the fall was antibiotics for the infection because of my fever. The docs had ordered a series of tests, including a CT scan, MRI, X-ray and Venus Doppler for the clot. We had already completed a X-ray the night I was admitted on my chest, leg and femur. I was told that the chest area did show some abnormal growth and it looked like it was old, so at least it wasn’t new [mets?] to the ribs. I have yet to speak to anyone about any official results.

The Venus Doppler gave us preliminary results that basically showed that I did have blockage in my vein due to the blood clot. Something that was clarified before today: blood clots are not spherical; they are more elongated (like spaghetti), so the red blood cells keep attaching themselves at the end of the current blood clot, causing it to get longer and have more blockage. Our initial guess, and something that one of the doctors mentioned, was that they would most likely change my blood thinner to something new. The next test, the CT scan, I experienced more horrific pain when they tried to move me from one bed to the table. It took me 15 minutes to recover and eight people to calm me down. The next big obstacle was getting back to my bed from the machine.

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Sorry to hear about your complications. I hope you feel better soon, we're all pulling for you!

May 28, 2009 - 6:16pm

Melissa, YOU are the MOST courageous person I know...What courage and to continue to write even when you must dicate. I only HOPE that YOU realize what YOU are doing for the rest of us!!!!!! You are the poster girl for WE CAN OVERCOME, WE WILL SURVIVE and WE WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE....Please know that so many of us have you in OUR HEART and PRAYERS....May I share couple of my favorite Bible verses with you,
Rom 8:38-39
I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor prinscipalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, nor height nor depth, nor nay other created thing shall be able to separate us from the LOVE OF GOD, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord....
I take this to mean that we have LOVE with us at all times through all things.

Ps 30:5 ....His favor is for life, weeping may endure for a night, but JOY comes in the morning.
This means to me that IT WILL GET BETTER, as you have heard so many times, "it is darkest before the light".

I look forward to meeting you when you can have company, or we can talk via SKYPE...in the meantime, I have you here.

Sharing Love/Hugs, Princeline

May 28, 2009 - 4:59pm

Sending you very gentle virtual hugs and a day without pain.

May 28, 2009 - 4:09pm
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Stay strong! I give you a lot of credit for continuing to write as you go through this.

May 28, 2009 - 2:59pm


I just started to read your story and can't believe how incredibly brave and strong you are! Before coming to EmpowHer, I was the National Online Sales Manager at azcentral so although I never met you I know who you are. It sounds like you had a very tough night. Hang in there and I will reach back to you later.


Kelley Howard

May 28, 2009 - 10:38am
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