Well, I have to ask the obvious question: does HE want YOU to "make him" have multiple orgasms? I ask this, because "making" anyone do anything in a sexual relationship can cause some frustration, disappointment and pressure... and all-of-a-sudden the sexual relationship has a "goal" instead of allowing things to happen naturally and have the only "goal" be that of pleasure and intimacy.
If this is just a semantics-issue (meaning: I read too much into the word "make him"), then read on to what information I found! :-)
Go Ask Alice Q&A had a similar question from a male, and one type of technique is called "karezza" for individuals to learn how to "control orgasms", and sounds very spirituality-based.
The Kinsey Institute is a great, credible source of all information that is sexuality-related. However, I did not find any information on "male multiple orgasms".
I hope you hear from one of EmpowHer's sex experts. I assume they would mention that orgasms are 90% mental/ emotional and 10% physical (or some similar percentage-range) to point out the fact that for any partner to have multiple orgasms, it is important to discover (through open communication, experience, trial-and-error) what that person is stimulated by on an individual basis, both mentally and physically.
Everyone's sexuality is different, too! I wonder why the goal is for your partner to "orgasm" several times?
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Well, I have to ask the obvious question: does HE want YOU to "make him" have multiple orgasms? I ask this, because "making" anyone do anything in a sexual relationship can cause some frustration, disappointment and pressure... and all-of-a-sudden the sexual relationship has a "goal" instead of allowing things to happen naturally and have the only "goal" be that of pleasure and intimacy.
If this is just a semantics-issue (meaning: I read too much into the word "make him"), then read on to what information I found! :-)
Go Ask Alice Q&A had a similar question from a male, and one type of technique is called "karezza" for individuals to learn how to "control orgasms", and sounds very spirituality-based.
The Kinsey Institute is a great, credible source of all information that is sexuality-related. However, I did not find any information on "male multiple orgasms".
I hope you hear from one of EmpowHer's sex experts. I assume they would mention that orgasms are 90% mental/ emotional and 10% physical (or some similar percentage-range) to point out the fact that for any partner to have multiple orgasms, it is important to discover (through open communication, experience, trial-and-error) what that person is stimulated by on an individual basis, both mentally and physically.
Everyone's sexuality is different, too! I wonder why the goal is for your partner to "orgasm" several times?
August 31, 2008 - 7:20amThis Comment
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