Hello there, This must be extremely frustrating for you, especially in thinking that you could move on after a not-so pleasant incident in your life. I was wondering ... have you noticed patterns in his visits to the neighbors? The reason I ask is that maybe that's the night you can take a class, get together with some supportive friends over dinner or head to the gym. At least this way, you're in a different environment, receiving the social support you need or learning a new skill. Also, it's amazing how activity can take our minds off of things. With regard to the neighbors, I'm not sure of your relationship with them. How long have you known them? Were you really good friends or acquaintances? Is it worth the energy to try to work on that relationship? Or is it time to meet new people who may not have been associated with your ex?
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Hello there, This must be extremely frustrating for you, especially in thinking that you could move on after a not-so pleasant incident in your life. I was wondering ... have you noticed patterns in his visits to the neighbors? The reason I ask is that maybe that's the night you can take a class, get together with some supportive friends over dinner or head to the gym. At least this way, you're in a different environment, receiving the social support you need or learning a new skill. Also, it's amazing how activity can take our minds off of things. With regard to the neighbors, I'm not sure of your relationship with them. How long have you known them? Were you really good friends or acquaintances? Is it worth the energy to try to work on that relationship? Or is it time to meet new people who may not have been associated with your ex?
September 21, 2008 - 6:08pmThis Comment
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