I've been in a relationship with a guy for the past 6 years, it started when I was 15 and I am now 21. He is 24 and although we've always had a deep connection, he's never agreed to marry me. I never understood why and decided to break up with him a few days ago, however, it was just then that he told me he has been diagnosed with MS, and the reason he doesn't want us to be together is because he doesn't want me to have a life in which I will have to give up living fully to look after him and the family.
A week ago I was ready to leave him, but now I feel like I can't leave him. I always thought that I loved him more than he loved me, so that made it easier to leave. After finding out this news I'm now confused. Do I listen to him and let him go and hope he'll be ok? I'd feel like such a terrible person if I do that. I feel like I love him so much, is my love for him not strong enough to marry him? How bad could MS possibly be? I don't know what to do right now. :(
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I've been in a relationship with a guy for the past 6 years, it started when I was 15 and I am now 21. He is 24 and although we've always had a deep connection, he's never agreed to marry me. I never understood why and decided to break up with him a few days ago, however, it was just then that he told me he has been diagnosed with MS, and the reason he doesn't want us to be together is because he doesn't want me to have a life in which I will have to give up living fully to look after him and the family.
April 18, 2014 - 3:45pmA week ago I was ready to leave him, but now I feel like I can't leave him. I always thought that I loved him more than he loved me, so that made it easier to leave. After finding out this news I'm now confused. Do I listen to him and let him go and hope he'll be ok? I'd feel like such a terrible person if I do that. I feel like I love him so much, is my love for him not strong enough to marry him? How bad could MS possibly be? I don't know what to do right now. :(
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