I'm a husband who is dying from cancer - six months to live. All the pain, operations and side effect issues (heart attacks, upper GI bleeding, perforated intestine, anal surgery ..." and all the pain pills that alter a persons moods and emotions, I have had several episodes of being verbally abusive to my wife. She so doesn't deserve any of it; she has been an angle to me through all of this.
I made a promise to her to never to it again tonight. I get no pleasure out of being mean to her, I feel so bad afterwards, and I pride myself on a man who can control his own emotions and actions.
In the question of the person asking for advice in her situations, I would suggest she will only find her answer by searching in her own mind and emotions. She may find she has been wanting to leave him for some time now, and is looking for reasons why it's her husbands fault and that would justify her leaving him. His increasing rudeness and lack of talking with her may be just how he is reacting to the knowledge that his wife resents him and doesn't love him anymore.
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I'm a husband who is dying from cancer - six months to live. All the pain, operations and side effect issues (heart attacks, upper GI bleeding, perforated intestine, anal surgery ..." and all the pain pills that alter a persons moods and emotions, I have had several episodes of being verbally abusive to my wife. She so doesn't deserve any of it; she has been an angle to me through all of this.
May 20, 2014 - 12:07amI made a promise to her to never to it again tonight. I get no pleasure out of being mean to her, I feel so bad afterwards, and I pride myself on a man who can control his own emotions and actions.
In the question of the person asking for advice in her situations, I would suggest she will only find her answer by searching in her own mind and emotions. She may find she has been wanting to leave him for some time now, and is looking for reasons why it's her husbands fault and that would justify her leaving him. His increasing rudeness and lack of talking with her may be just how he is reacting to the knowledge that his wife resents him and doesn't love him anymore.
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