I can understand your touching story. My husband would not take care of himself and now has cancer. I cried blood and tore my heart out trying to help him or get him to help himself...But have finally just stopped trying to do much of anything except ask if wants something, anything to drink or eat. I let him let do what ever he wants and am sure his end is nearing. But we are not in a power struggle anymore. I just want peace for us...Yet I still am trying to figure out how to not have be there for everything he needs or every emergency he has. I really don't have much of a life, just sometimes an hour a day at the park to myself and I can read before he gets up which is sometimes noon. I am trying to give love, find meaning and show appreciation with out getting totally drained or lose my self. So far its not been easy.
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I can understand your touching story. My husband would not take care of himself and now has cancer. I cried blood and tore my heart out trying to help him or get him to help himself...But have finally just stopped trying to do much of anything except ask if wants something, anything to drink or eat. I let him let do what ever he wants and am sure his end is nearing. But we are not in a power struggle anymore. I just want peace for us...Yet I still am trying to figure out how to not have be there for everything he needs or every emergency he has. I really don't have much of a life, just sometimes an hour a day at the park to myself and I can read before he gets up which is sometimes noon. I am trying to give love, find meaning and show appreciation with out getting totally drained or lose my self. So far its not been easy.
November 11, 2014 - 8:49pmThis Comment
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