I would think it's time to just talk openly and honestly about his impending death now. Maybe he is truly is ready for hospice...and that be a relief for every one...He and his family need to address it. Once the conversation start...let real emotion just pour forth...He may cry, yell and scream...and you my also...Don't take be so scared of the pain everyone is caring..it needs to out...but look for way that are constructive...He has been avoiding everything so it will not be easy or even rational, but when he finally gets real, he may have some things he want to say to others..probably blame at first...maybe then regret and remorse. Get him a psychologist and Chaplin to help him face his life and transition. He my balk at first just t be kind but dont give up. When things are addressed, the pain and confusion will eventually turn into a spiritual awaking for every one.
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I would think it's time to just talk openly and honestly about his impending death now. Maybe he is truly is ready for hospice...and that be a relief for every one...He and his family need to address it. Once the conversation start...let real emotion just pour forth...He may cry, yell and scream...and you my also...Don't take be so scared of the pain everyone is caring..it needs to out...but look for way that are constructive...He has been avoiding everything so it will not be easy or even rational, but when he finally gets real, he may have some things he want to say to others..probably blame at first...maybe then regret and remorse. Get him a psychologist and Chaplin to help him face his life and transition. He my balk at first just t be kind but dont give up. When things are addressed, the pain and confusion will eventually turn into a spiritual awaking for every one.
January 18, 2015 - 4:25pmThis Comment
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