Anonymous,
I feel sad for your misunderstanding and bitterness. I feel even more sad that you make reference "God help you" in such a negative way. Guess what...God has helped, loved, and guided all well-spouses. To be a well-spouse for an hour, still is more than anyone can fathom. I could pretty confidentially guess you have never taken care of a chronically ill person. I too am married to some one with MS.
With that said: to "Anonymous" on her high horse and more importantly to the original writer of the letter: I understand. I am there. The personality is so different. My husband became sick 4 years into our marriage and he is not the same man. I too am struggling with very difficult decisions about our future as a couple. Surround yourself with friends and family that get it and don't worry about what other people think. Take care of your husband, and if you leave, leave him respectfully and in a good position in taking care of his health.
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Anonymous,
I feel sad for your misunderstanding and bitterness. I feel even more sad that you make reference "God help you" in such a negative way. Guess what...God has helped, loved, and guided all well-spouses. To be a well-spouse for an hour, still is more than anyone can fathom. I could pretty confidentially guess you have never taken care of a chronically ill person. I too am married to some one with MS.
With that said: to "Anonymous" on her high horse and more importantly to the original writer of the letter: I understand. I am there. The personality is so different. My husband became sick 4 years into our marriage and he is not the same man. I too am struggling with very difficult decisions about our future as a couple. Surround yourself with friends and family that get it and don't worry about what other people think. Take care of your husband, and if you leave, leave him respectfully and in a good position in taking care of his health.
Respectfully
March 24, 2015 - 9:08pmThis Comment
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