I'm 50 years old. Have been married 23 years this August. I'm the one that is sick. I have had severe GI issues. Part of my colon taken out. Have pain daily since. I also have had multiple other issues. All this created me into a very anxious person. I was once so vibrant, running around. Doing and Doing. For my family (2 children and a husdand). I loved being helpful. Now fast forward I have been sick for 5 years. My husband more often has to grocery shop. Takes me to doctors. He has been very verbal about how unhappy he is. My kids son 17 and daughter 27 try to cheer me up. My husband has gotten so angry, the kids can't stand to see it. My question is....I feel so scared for my future. Also watching my husband slip away from me is so hard. Yesterday at the er again. Stomach pain. We waited hours. I got an allergic reaction to some meds. He gave me a look I have never seen. He said I just want to go home. This is so disappointing . Is he going to leave or are we both just torching each other. I love him so much and wish it was different.
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I'm 50 years old. Have been married 23 years this August. I'm the one that is sick. I have had severe GI issues. Part of my colon taken out. Have pain daily since. I also have had multiple other issues. All this created me into a very anxious person. I was once so vibrant, running around. Doing and Doing. For my family (2 children and a husdand). I loved being helpful. Now fast forward I have been sick for 5 years. My husband more often has to grocery shop. Takes me to doctors. He has been very verbal about how unhappy he is. My kids son 17 and daughter 27 try to cheer me up. My husband has gotten so angry, the kids can't stand to see it. My question is....I feel so scared for my future. Also watching my husband slip away from me is so hard. Yesterday at the er again. Stomach pain. We waited hours. I got an allergic reaction to some meds. He gave me a look I have never seen. He said I just want to go home. This is so disappointing . Is he going to leave or are we both just torching each other. I love him so much and wish it was different.
May 28, 2016 - 8:52amThis Comment
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