You probably wont want to read my opinion but I am going to post it anyway because it is the honest truth. You were married, divorce is a contradiction to marriage it shouldn't even exist. What is the point of getting married if you are going to get divorced? What is the point of the vows and false promises?
"...for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health... "
FOR BETTER OR WORSE.
SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH.
What did you not understand about that? Oh, his attitude hasn't matured to your liking and his health hasn't gotten any better. Too bad, you should have thought about that during your wedding. Now you are going to cop out because your marriage isn't what you "thought" it was going to be like? Here is an idea, its your marriage, figure it out. I am tired of people like you "copping" out I don't respect it. Marriage is suppose to be until DEATH, until one of the lovers are 6feet deep in a casket covered in roses, what do you not get ? I don't respect you, you are just as weak of a wife as he is a frail husband and you should honestly be ashamed in yourself as you put all the blame on him. You married him knowing he was suffering from multiple sclerosis, not that it would matter anyway. But you KNEW he was SICK.
Your story is one sided where you play the victim and you are looking for support from people because you know divorce is shameful. And I am certainly not going to support this decision and pretend like its ok.
From the sound of it your husband doesn't seem interested in divorce and thats why I respect him more than you.
In a nutshell you knowingly married a sick person and want to cop out of a marriage after 8 years because it's too hard. You are a weak wife and shouldn't have gotten married.
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You probably wont want to read my opinion but I am going to post it anyway because it is the honest truth. You were married, divorce is a contradiction to marriage it shouldn't even exist. What is the point of getting married if you are going to get divorced? What is the point of the vows and false promises?
"...for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health... "
FOR BETTER OR WORSE.
SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH.
What did you not understand about that? Oh, his attitude hasn't matured to your liking and his health hasn't gotten any better. Too bad, you should have thought about that during your wedding. Now you are going to cop out because your marriage isn't what you "thought" it was going to be like? Here is an idea, its your marriage, figure it out. I am tired of people like you "copping" out I don't respect it. Marriage is suppose to be until DEATH, until one of the lovers are 6feet deep in a casket covered in roses, what do you not get ? I don't respect you, you are just as weak of a wife as he is a frail husband and you should honestly be ashamed in yourself as you put all the blame on him. You married him knowing he was suffering from multiple sclerosis, not that it would matter anyway. But you KNEW he was SICK.
Your story is one sided where you play the victim and you are looking for support from people because you know divorce is shameful. And I am certainly not going to support this decision and pretend like its ok.
From the sound of it your husband doesn't seem interested in divorce and thats why I respect him more than you.
In a nutshell you knowingly married a sick person and want to cop out of a marriage after 8 years because it's too hard. You are a weak wife and shouldn't have gotten married.
August 14, 2016 - 10:14amThis Comment
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