It is very difficult. My husband lately has decided that he will push himself to accomplish certain tasks and then falls repeatedly, has very poor coordination etc. I appreciate him trying, but really, if he's going to fall and get hurt, then I'd rather just do it myself. Especially because as he becomes incresingly more exhausted he's yelling at me the entire time. I'm sorry to hear that you are going through similar issues. Unfortunately, I really don't have any great advice. I'm basically taking it one day at a time. I'll suddenly think that I've had it and I'm leaving and then he falls, or has extremely poor balance and I feel so guilty that I really don't think that I'll ever leave. I'm trying to find good moments in the day. We had a pretty good weekend, but last night, he had to be mad at me because, while I was out visiting family, he overdid it and felt poorly. Hmmm....I see how that's my fault. Not. Wishing you good luck.
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It is very difficult. My husband lately has decided that he will push himself to accomplish certain tasks and then falls repeatedly, has very poor coordination etc. I appreciate him trying, but really, if he's going to fall and get hurt, then I'd rather just do it myself. Especially because as he becomes incresingly more exhausted he's yelling at me the entire time. I'm sorry to hear that you are going through similar issues. Unfortunately, I really don't have any great advice. I'm basically taking it one day at a time. I'll suddenly think that I've had it and I'm leaving and then he falls, or has extremely poor balance and I feel so guilty that I really don't think that I'll ever leave. I'm trying to find good moments in the day. We had a pretty good weekend, but last night, he had to be mad at me because, while I was out visiting family, he overdid it and felt poorly. Hmmm....I see how that's my fault. Not. Wishing you good luck.
July 6, 2009 - 7:08pmThis Comment
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