You aren't alone. I wish I could offer some profound advice, but I have none. Having an ill spouse is such a lonely experience. I know that you must feel very alone and emotionally exhausted. One book that helped me to realize that I wasn't the only person in my situation was "The Other Victim" by Alan Drattell. The book focuses on spouses and caregivers of people with MS, but I think that it is probably pretty appropriate for many people who are trying to deal with someone who is suffering from a deteriorating condition. Your children do need to be able to feel safe and loved. Good luck on your long road. It isn't easy, but you have support here.
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You aren't alone. I wish I could offer some profound advice, but I have none. Having an ill spouse is such a lonely experience. I know that you must feel very alone and emotionally exhausted. One book that helped me to realize that I wasn't the only person in my situation was "The Other Victim" by Alan Drattell. The book focuses on spouses and caregivers of people with MS, but I think that it is probably pretty appropriate for many people who are trying to deal with someone who is suffering from a deteriorating condition. Your children do need to be able to feel safe and loved. Good luck on your long road. It isn't easy, but you have support here.
September 1, 2010 - 7:24pmThis Comment
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