Okay, thanks guys, nice to know I'm relatively normal. I am actually already on birth control pills, and my boyfriend warned me when I went to the doctor's to get them that they might want to examine me. My mother, however, scoffed at this - it seems that it is more of an american thing (I'm Aussie). In any case, the pills are for period pain, not birth control (they are thus a low dosage, should I get the dosage changed before I marry?)
I still think I'm on the smaller side of "normal" though, one finger (or the tippy tips of two) is all I can fit, ever. Lubricated just makes it a lot easier. And shh because we're supposed to be behaving, but the largest width I've managed is my boyfriend's finger, once. Since then he hasn't been able to do it without it hurting me, which I blame on buried guilt over the matter. Plus, I'm extraordinarily paranoid about getting pregnant, which surely doesn't help. So yeah, I know all about relaxing being necessary, and am not too optimistic about my chances at a pain-free first time.
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Okay, thanks guys, nice to know I'm relatively normal. I am actually already on birth control pills, and my boyfriend warned me when I went to the doctor's to get them that they might want to examine me. My mother, however, scoffed at this - it seems that it is more of an american thing (I'm Aussie). In any case, the pills are for period pain, not birth control (they are thus a low dosage, should I get the dosage changed before I marry?)
February 2, 2009 - 1:40pmI still think I'm on the smaller side of "normal" though, one finger (or the tippy tips of two) is all I can fit, ever. Lubricated just makes it a lot easier. And shh because we're supposed to be behaving, but the largest width I've managed is my boyfriend's finger, once. Since then he hasn't been able to do it without it hurting me, which I blame on buried guilt over the matter. Plus, I'm extraordinarily paranoid about getting pregnant, which surely doesn't help. So yeah, I know all about relaxing being necessary, and am not too optimistic about my chances at a pain-free first time.
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