My husband and I have been together for five years and eight months we have been married for just eight months we have two little boys our oldies is 1year and 10month old and our other Is only 5months old and that is why I just really want this to work out. I found out about his problem when our first son was only a few months old. We had my mom and dads computer because they had nowere to keep it. I was fine with him looking at it my dad had all kinds of pic. On the computer. One night our son was sleeping and so you know what I wanted. He was looking up pic and it was a little of a turn on. Not the pics but the thing about him looking at them I dont know way but anyway I told him to come to bed. He said he would be there in about 5 min so I went and got ready for him a hour later I came back and rub aganst him and told him I was a bit upset I was waiting on him. He said sorry and that he was coming so I went back to wait on him. I fell asleep and when I woke he was still in here. I told him to never look at it again. He always tells me he wont do it but does. I told him to take pics of me and only look at them and he said ok. We live next to his moms house he will even sneek down there to get on her computer and I am at wits end. I tore up all the photos of me a couple of days ago. I was just so mad. I have warned him of me maybe leaving. I dont know if it is going to work or not. I dont want to leave the only person I can go stay with is my mom and she would not understand if I gave him another chance later. My real father was a sex addict not a porn addict he even found childern sexy (me and my sister) and my mom compares everything about me to her. My husband dont want sex. He prefers his hand and a picture or two. My father would have sex with every one and he would make my mom have sex with everyone so I know it is not like that but my mom just would not get it. I have lost almost all selfesteam I told him one day I may not care no more. I really dont know who to talk to he wont go to counslor he said he can fix it and I just dont know.
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My husband and I have been together for five years and eight months we have been married for just eight months we have two little boys our oldies is 1year and 10month old and our other Is only 5months old and that is why I just really want this to work out. I found out about his problem when our first son was only a few months old. We had my mom and dads computer because they had nowere to keep it. I was fine with him looking at it my dad had all kinds of pic. On the computer. One night our son was sleeping and so you know what I wanted. He was looking up pic and it was a little of a turn on. Not the pics but the thing about him looking at them I dont know way but anyway I told him to come to bed. He said he would be there in about 5 min so I went and got ready for him a hour later I came back and rub aganst him and told him I was a bit upset I was waiting on him. He said sorry and that he was coming so I went back to wait on him. I fell asleep and when I woke he was still in here. I told him to never look at it again. He always tells me he wont do it but does. I told him to take pics of me and only look at them and he said ok. We live next to his moms house he will even sneek down there to get on her computer and I am at wits end. I tore up all the photos of me a couple of days ago. I was just so mad. I have warned him of me maybe leaving. I dont know if it is going to work or not. I dont want to leave the only person I can go stay with is my mom and she would not understand if I gave him another chance later. My real father was a sex addict not a porn addict he even found childern sexy (me and my sister) and my mom compares everything about me to her. My husband dont want sex. He prefers his hand and a picture or two. My father would have sex with every one and he would make my mom have sex with everyone so I know it is not like that but my mom just would not get it. I have lost almost all selfesteam I told him one day I may not care no more. I really dont know who to talk to he wont go to counslor he said he can fix it and I just dont know.
November 10, 2009 - 4:23pmThis Comment
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