this may help in your letting go process regarding your original post about masturbation:Is Masturbation Healthy?
Another way to increase the trust in your relationship is to talk with your boyfriend about his views of masturbation. There are some great talking points (or "quizzes") that can help couples talk about their views of sexuality...it's helpful to learn each other's perspective on these things. Does your boyfriend believe that masturbation is healthy? Why or why not?
Most importantly is how he treats you when you two are together. Are you happy with your sex life and intimacy when you two are together? That could be another area to explore...maybe you are getting a different vibe from him, and wanting to blame masturbation for a lack of intimacy or trust between you two? If so, please talk with him and be honest with your feelings (you said he is a loving man...maybe you can trust him with your scared feelings?).
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this may help in your letting go process regarding your original post about masturbation:Is Masturbation Healthy?
Another way to increase the trust in your relationship is to talk with your boyfriend about his views of masturbation. There are some great talking points (or "quizzes") that can help couples talk about their views of sexuality...it's helpful to learn each other's perspective on these things. Does your boyfriend believe that masturbation is healthy? Why or why not?
Most importantly is how he treats you when you two are together. Are you happy with your sex life and intimacy when you two are together? That could be another area to explore...maybe you are getting a different vibe from him, and wanting to blame masturbation for a lack of intimacy or trust between you two? If so, please talk with him and be honest with your feelings (you said he is a loving man...maybe you can trust him with your scared feelings?).
I wish you the best---keep me updated!
March 22, 2009 - 7:13pmThis Comment
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