I went thru the same thing and I went looking else where I felt guilty but in the end I felt like I had to do it. I got over the flings on the side and my lack of interest in the sex made him more interested. And that other comment on how maybe its become a pressure thing with pleasing you rather than intimacy? I was told that by my boyfriend whose libido dropped for me and so after leaving him alone about sex and him coming around I tried making sure I really pleased him like going down on him and not even wanting it in return so he felt like it was all about him, guys can be so much more sensitive than girls sometimes its funny.
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I went thru the same thing and I went looking else where I felt guilty but in the end I felt like I had to do it. I got over the flings on the side and my lack of interest in the sex made him more interested. And that other comment on how maybe its become a pressure thing with pleasing you rather than intimacy? I was told that by my boyfriend whose libido dropped for me and so after leaving him alone about sex and him coming around I tried making sure I really pleased him like going down on him and not even wanting it in return so he felt like it was all about him, guys can be so much more sensitive than girls sometimes its funny.
June 26, 2012 - 5:12pmThis Comment
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