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I am 41, and also have an insanely high labido. I simply cannot get enough. I was married for 20 years & had a great, healthy sex life with my ex, who had the same sex drive. We are now divorced, and I have been in a relationship with a wonderful man for the past year. He, on the other hand, is a bit overweight, and doesn't share the same sex drive. In fact, he is constantly amazed that I continue to want it all the time - anytime of the day or night - because his previous wife had very little interest in a sex life with him. I suspect his issue may very well be his weight or a medical problem. However, where I used to have sex around twice a day in my old relationship, I am lucky if it happens once a week (or sometimes two) with him. I am very frustrated with this, and really wish we there were some equality in that area. But the fact that I love this man so dearly, keeps me right there with him - sex or no sex. I would probably still not ever stray - even if there was no sex at all. I think you have to examine your heart. What's more important to you, your own sexual fulfilment, or the wants/needs of the person you profess to love???