Would you have to go through IVF in order to conceive again? It's a tough call for you I'm sure but it may help to make a pros and cons list of having another baby. I realize that you are concerned about her being alone but perhaps your husband isn't so concerned because she has lots of friends (or could have lots of friends). I personally have two children and still feel that they both need to interact and socialize with other children because the world isn't just the two of them. So, by visiting a day care center (it's really more of an educational/fun center for kids from NB-3 years) we are considering them joining even if it's for a few days a week.
But like I said, it's a tough call for you just be sure that you still have the patience, energy and love for another child and that you're ready to accept a baby that could potentially have a birth defect.
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Hi Anon,
Would you have to go through IVF in order to conceive again? It's a tough call for you I'm sure but it may help to make a pros and cons list of having another baby. I realize that you are concerned about her being alone but perhaps your husband isn't so concerned because she has lots of friends (or could have lots of friends). I personally have two children and still feel that they both need to interact and socialize with other children because the world isn't just the two of them. So, by visiting a day care center (it's really more of an educational/fun center for kids from NB-3 years) we are considering them joining even if it's for a few days a week.
But like I said, it's a tough call for you just be sure that you still have the patience, energy and love for another child and that you're ready to accept a baby that could potentially have a birth defect.
All the best!
Rosa
April 16, 2011 - 4:55amThis Comment
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