There's nothing "wrong" with you, but you certainly seem to be dealing with a lot of anxiety. Communication between you and your partner is the key to a healthy sexual relationship.
You also need to be kinder to yourself. Do something just for you that makes you feel good about yourself. Whether that's getting a new haircut or replacing your old underwear (really, sometimes that can be fun), just do something fun and new for yourself. When you feel good about the way you look, it will carry over into your relationship.
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Hi, Jodie:
There's nothing "wrong" with you, but you certainly seem to be dealing with a lot of anxiety. Communication between you and your partner is the key to a healthy sexual relationship.
You also need to be kinder to yourself. Do something just for you that makes you feel good about yourself. Whether that's getting a new haircut or replacing your old underwear (really, sometimes that can be fun), just do something fun and new for yourself. When you feel good about the way you look, it will carry over into your relationship.
Hope this helps.
April 14, 2009 - 9:21pmThis Comment
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