This is such a personal topic that there can never be one anwser. On the one hand I agree that anyone who doesn't accept you the way you are isn't worth your time. But on the other hand, when a woman's self esteem is so tightly bonded to this issue then surely having them reconstructed is not such a bad thing. I don't believe that fake breasts are more attractive than real ones, but rather that implants provide a solution for some women to have a more 'normal' shaped breast. In turn improving their self esteem and outlook on life. In my personal case I would consider the surgery to improve the way I feel about myself and allow me a new lease on life. Those of you who have been lucky enough to find loving and accepting partners, I feel happy for you. But to those of us who have been left feeling insecure and sometimes humiliated by people's reactions I say do what feels right.
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This is such a personal topic that there can never be one anwser. On the one hand I agree that anyone who doesn't accept you the way you are isn't worth your time. But on the other hand, when a woman's self esteem is so tightly bonded to this issue then surely having them reconstructed is not such a bad thing. I don't believe that fake breasts are more attractive than real ones, but rather that implants provide a solution for some women to have a more 'normal' shaped breast. In turn improving their self esteem and outlook on life. In my personal case I would consider the surgery to improve the way I feel about myself and allow me a new lease on life. Those of you who have been lucky enough to find loving and accepting partners, I feel happy for you. But to those of us who have been left feeling insecure and sometimes humiliated by people's reactions I say do what feels right.
August 26, 2009 - 3:33pmThis Comment
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