I am not fat, and I am attractive, and I am dealing with the same problem. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 4 years, and we've been living together for 3. I have a somewhat high sex-drive and his is VERY low. It is awful. We've discussed the issue a million times. He always says he wants to change, and he wants to please me, but he never does. I know he feels pressured, but this whole situation is causing me to resent him, and hate myself. He is so good to me, and we love each other very much. We haven't had sex in almost 4 months. We are both in our late twenties. I don't know what to do about this. I know he occasionally looks at porn, and I wouldn't mind that except for the fact that WE never have sex! I am open to constructive suggestions!!
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I am not fat, and I am attractive, and I am dealing with the same problem. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 4 years, and we've been living together for 3. I have a somewhat high sex-drive and his is VERY low. It is awful. We've discussed the issue a million times. He always says he wants to change, and he wants to please me, but he never does. I know he feels pressured, but this whole situation is causing me to resent him, and hate myself. He is so good to me, and we love each other very much. We haven't had sex in almost 4 months. We are both in our late twenties. I don't know what to do about this. I know he occasionally looks at porn, and I wouldn't mind that except for the fact that WE never have sex! I am open to constructive suggestions!!
December 29, 2010 - 12:28amThis Comment
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