What is your definition of a happy, healthy relationship?
I hope it does not include:
- a person who lies to you
- a person who is bored with you
- a person who cheats on you
- a person who puts you down (boobs too small)
- a person who refuses sex or stops physical intimacy
If your definition of a happy, healthy relationship is "none of these!", then please know that you DO deserve a healthy relationship, and you DO deserve to be with someone who treats you well. A mutually loving relationship is possible; it is too bad that this person is not mature enough to communicate with you that the relationship is over, so you will need to make that step for him. You are not the cause of the relationship being over; you are just mature enough to say it out loud.
Breaking up is hard to do; let us know if you need any support!
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What is your definition of a happy, healthy relationship?
I hope it does not include:
- a person who lies to you
- a person who is bored with you
- a person who cheats on you
- a person who puts you down (boobs too small)
- a person who refuses sex or stops physical intimacy
If your definition of a happy, healthy relationship is "none of these!", then please know that you DO deserve a healthy relationship, and you DO deserve to be with someone who treats you well. A mutually loving relationship is possible; it is too bad that this person is not mature enough to communicate with you that the relationship is over, so you will need to make that step for him. You are not the cause of the relationship being over; you are just mature enough to say it out loud.
Breaking up is hard to do; let us know if you need any support!
January 6, 2011 - 9:59amThis Comment
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