I have this same problem except maybe not as bad as some on here, but it still is really really bothering me nontheless. I am 23 yrs old and my bf will be 30 in 3 weeks. We do not live together and we met each other both as single parents. We have been dating for 2 yrs and 4 months. I have a 3 yr old daughter and he has a 5 yr old son. We used to do it every weekend cause thats when we see each other. Now it seems like a monthly or bi-monthly occurance. It has been this way for several months. Last week he told me that we were going to "have wild crazy sex," but come saturday I came over....we watched rented movies...then he fell asleep...I'd been there for just 3 hrs. He spent the night sleeping on the couch. He is a wonderful guy and I love him so much, but it really bothers me wondering what happened to him wanting to have sex with me. I dont want to talk to anyone about it because it makes me sound like some sex crazed freak, or like a bitch. Reasons why he dosen't feel that crazy about wanting me anymore run through my mind all the time though like: do I look different than I used to, am I boring, does he feel like he is stuck with me... He still says he loves me really often and cuddles with me, but I don't know what happpened to the sex. I know he does'nt get alot of sleep most nights and maybe thats it, but that never stopped him before. I could continue to blab, but yeh....I am frustrated.
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I have this same problem except maybe not as bad as some on here, but it still is really really bothering me nontheless. I am 23 yrs old and my bf will be 30 in 3 weeks. We do not live together and we met each other both as single parents. We have been dating for 2 yrs and 4 months. I have a 3 yr old daughter and he has a 5 yr old son. We used to do it every weekend cause thats when we see each other. Now it seems like a monthly or bi-monthly occurance. It has been this way for several months. Last week he told me that we were going to "have wild crazy sex," but come saturday I came over....we watched rented movies...then he fell asleep...I'd been there for just 3 hrs. He spent the night sleeping on the couch. He is a wonderful guy and I love him so much, but it really bothers me wondering what happened to him wanting to have sex with me. I dont want to talk to anyone about it because it makes me sound like some sex crazed freak, or like a bitch. Reasons why he dosen't feel that crazy about wanting me anymore run through my mind all the time though like: do I look different than I used to, am I boring, does he feel like he is stuck with me... He still says he loves me really often and cuddles with me, but I don't know what happpened to the sex. I know he does'nt get alot of sleep most nights and maybe thats it, but that never stopped him before. I could continue to blab, but yeh....I am frustrated.
February 10, 2011 - 9:37pmThis Comment
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