This is anonymous again(have this same problem except maybe not as bad as some on here, but it still is really really bothering me nontheless. I am 23 yrs old and my bf will be 30 in 3 weeks. We do not live together and we met each other both as single parents. We have been dating for 2 yrs and 4 months. I have a 3 yr old daughter and he has a 5 yr old son.)
Wow, the male responses on here are mostly horrible. Just because sex starts to happen less often in a relationship does not mean that the other one wants to leave you or that you have grown really unattractive...lol. Jeese. Have I gotten fat or started acting not sexy? No, I am 125 lbs,5'8, and have DD boobs.....and I have never stopped the dressing up/dressing nice when I go to see him bit.
Anyway, as for talking to him about it-I did this weekend and this is what he said "I love you to death and I'm sorry things haven't been what they were lately. I'm pretty well shot by the weekend with all this stupid overtime. The fact that I only get to see you one day a week don't help either. I really want to come home to you every night. If you're not happy with the way things are and that would help you can move in right now if you want. I want you here I love YOU." Then also "You're hot as hell!!! And you don't complain bout me huntin all the time!! I've never met a girl that compares to you."
He has been working overtime 12 hr shifts on 2nd shift as a welder. Also like I said we are both single parents, so the two little ones restrict time for those activities as well. Additionally we do not live together, but the plan has been that I will move in in a couple of months after I have graduated from college(this has been the plan for awhile). Bringing it up and talking about it has made me feel much more reassured. Hopefully, when we begin living together things will change in that area.
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This is anonymous again(have this same problem except maybe not as bad as some on here, but it still is really really bothering me nontheless. I am 23 yrs old and my bf will be 30 in 3 weeks. We do not live together and we met each other both as single parents. We have been dating for 2 yrs and 4 months. I have a 3 yr old daughter and he has a 5 yr old son.)
Wow, the male responses on here are mostly horrible. Just because sex starts to happen less often in a relationship does not mean that the other one wants to leave you or that you have grown really unattractive...lol. Jeese. Have I gotten fat or started acting not sexy? No, I am 125 lbs,5'8, and have DD boobs.....and I have never stopped the dressing up/dressing nice when I go to see him bit.
Anyway, as for talking to him about it-I did this weekend and this is what he said "I love you to death and I'm sorry things haven't been what they were lately. I'm pretty well shot by the weekend with all this stupid overtime. The fact that I only get to see you one day a week don't help either. I really want to come home to you every night. If you're not happy with the way things are and that would help you can move in right now if you want. I want you here I love YOU." Then also "You're hot as hell!!! And you don't complain bout me huntin all the time!! I've never met a girl that compares to you."
He has been working overtime 12 hr shifts on 2nd shift as a welder. Also like I said we are both single parents, so the two little ones restrict time for those activities as well. Additionally we do not live together, but the plan has been that I will move in in a couple of months after I have graduated from college(this has been the plan for awhile). Bringing it up and talking about it has made me feel much more reassured. Hopefully, when we begin living together things will change in that area.
March 1, 2011 - 4:56pmThis Comment
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