Hi, I live ina small town and my bfriend and I have been together 4 bout 2.5 yrs .We r having a baby in 6 wks and b4 I got preg he was not overly in2 having a huge amount of sex, I most def have a higher sex drive than he does,and find myself masturbating alot,I dont think there is anything wrong with that, Im fit and healthy,not fat and frumpy so there should be no reason that my man isnt attracted to me .I love him so much and we have a fantastic relationship in every other aspect,just not sexually.On average we have sex max once a week, I see this though as a challenge, but when we do have sex he wont go down on me at all and claims not to know how to pleasure me, it tends to be all about him and seems to be over in 10 mins,then he goes and washes himself,puts jocks back on and goes to sleep,every sexual occasion without cuddling,kissing or talking dirty like I ask,he finds it uncomfortable.So I carry on purchasing more sex toys and watching porn for my own satisfaction,what eles am I supposed to do???He thinks I have nothing eles to think about and that I must be bored, and when I ask him if im going to get lucky tonight he always says "yes"and I take pride in being totally hair free down there for him then when we get to bed he doesn't want it at all.Extremely frustrating!!!
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Hi, I live ina small town and my bfriend and I have been together 4 bout 2.5 yrs .We r having a baby in 6 wks and b4 I got preg he was not overly in2 having a huge amount of sex, I most def have a higher sex drive than he does,and find myself masturbating alot,I dont think there is anything wrong with that, Im fit and healthy,not fat and frumpy so there should be no reason that my man isnt attracted to me .I love him so much and we have a fantastic relationship in every other aspect,just not sexually.On average we have sex max once a week, I see this though as a challenge, but when we do have sex he wont go down on me at all and claims not to know how to pleasure me, it tends to be all about him and seems to be over in 10 mins,then he goes and washes himself,puts jocks back on and goes to sleep,every sexual occasion without cuddling,kissing or talking dirty like I ask,he finds it uncomfortable.So I carry on purchasing more sex toys and watching porn for my own satisfaction,what eles am I supposed to do???He thinks I have nothing eles to think about and that I must be bored, and when I ask him if im going to get lucky tonight he always says "yes"and I take pride in being totally hair free down there for him then when we get to bed he doesn't want it at all.Extremely frustrating!!!
March 19, 2011 - 8:36pmThis Comment
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