Well from a guy who is going through the male half of this right now... how often did you have sex... and how ofter did you start the ball rolling? Myself... my sex drive is doing a nose dive because about 98% of the time when I show interest, it results in a turn down... and when it doesn't... its always the same thing. She rarely wants to try something new and I can sum up her sex drive in two words " not there ". So as a guy... how long do we really want to keep trying? She loves me very much and I her. We live together and there is no way either of us is cheating or even looking at someone else. ( our relationship is great other than this )
So Mrs Kitty... you should maybe take a look at the past history. It is human to try things that don't work, but to quote a brilliant man "insanity is to doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results".
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Well from a guy who is going through the male half of this right now... how often did you have sex... and how ofter did you start the ball rolling? Myself... my sex drive is doing a nose dive because about 98% of the time when I show interest, it results in a turn down... and when it doesn't... its always the same thing. She rarely wants to try something new and I can sum up her sex drive in two words " not there ". So as a guy... how long do we really want to keep trying? She loves me very much and I her. We live together and there is no way either of us is cheating or even looking at someone else. ( our relationship is great other than this )
April 15, 2011 - 1:51pmSo Mrs Kitty... you should maybe take a look at the past history. It is human to try things that don't work, but to quote a brilliant man "insanity is to doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results".
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