Hi,
I am in a similar situation. My lover just cant keep an erection when he is inside me or, lately does'nt want to have sex as often as we used to. I must admit he's older by 18 years but age was'nt a problem before. It started when a new girl came to work with us, I found things was fishy, I eventually caught her whispering to him several times only to be told he did'nt see anything but she could never explain herself. I felt so hurt as I was doing everything for him, she was not goodlooking and I often wondered what he saw in her if he was cheating on me with her. There were many things that was swept under the rug because I honestly dont want to lose him. I was feeling so cheated and he is very possessive and does'nt allow me to go anywhere often.I lied about going out one time with family because I was scared of him not letting me go. yes it was with family but he says he can never trust me. Later I found out he told her lots of things in my absence and gave her very personal advice which I thought he was out of place to do if he was'nt involved. I dont know if it was to get back at me for lying. She is gone now but I still dont know for sure if he was involved or still is. He always tells me there was nothing but now he's struggling to make one round when we used to do two and three per day, four or five days a week. It makes me feel like I am too wet or to loose or that he is getting it somewhere else. I love him very much, I dont want to leave him but I need some sort of advice. Can someone help.........
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May 2, 2011 - 12:33pmI am in a similar situation. My lover just cant keep an erection when he is inside me or, lately does'nt want to have sex as often as we used to. I must admit he's older by 18 years but age was'nt a problem before. It started when a new girl came to work with us, I found things was fishy, I eventually caught her whispering to him several times only to be told he did'nt see anything but she could never explain herself. I felt so hurt as I was doing everything for him, she was not goodlooking and I often wondered what he saw in her if he was cheating on me with her. There were many things that was swept under the rug because I honestly dont want to lose him. I was feeling so cheated and he is very possessive and does'nt allow me to go anywhere often.I lied about going out one time with family because I was scared of him not letting me go. yes it was with family but he says he can never trust me. Later I found out he told her lots of things in my absence and gave her very personal advice which I thought he was out of place to do if he was'nt involved. I dont know if it was to get back at me for lying. She is gone now but I still dont know for sure if he was involved or still is. He always tells me there was nothing but now he's struggling to make one round when we used to do two and three per day, four or five days a week. It makes me feel like I am too wet or to loose or that he is getting it somewhere else. I love him very much, I dont want to leave him but I need some sort of advice. Can someone help.........
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