I don't know what a mammogram feels like, as I haven't had to get one yet, but maybe an ultrasound could be suggested to the lady in question. I've heard that they are less scary and not as invasive.
Otherwise, besides informing people of the pros and cons of having anything done, there is very little you can do to MAKE an adult comply if they are hesitant.
My Mother still smokes. This bothers me but I have had to accept it. I have pointed out the negative effects of smoking(which she is fully aware of)and now, can do nothing but accept her choice, sadly.
This woman, I'm sure KNOWS that a mammogram is a good idea and has, for the moment, decided against it. What can another do to change her mind other than give the facts and let her decide for herself? It is an unhappy path to take when we try to control what another person does, even if it is for their good.
For example, I am deathly phobic of getting blood tests. I avoid them no matter what....luckily I am super healthy! No matter what anyone said to me I would NOT listen to them about it being a good idea to have my cholesterol checked, etc..!!!! I would be irritated that they were trying to boss me around!!
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I don't know what a mammogram feels like, as I haven't had to get one yet, but maybe an ultrasound could be suggested to the lady in question. I've heard that they are less scary and not as invasive.
June 10, 2009 - 10:34amOtherwise, besides informing people of the pros and cons of having anything done, there is very little you can do to MAKE an adult comply if they are hesitant.
My Mother still smokes. This bothers me but I have had to accept it. I have pointed out the negative effects of smoking(which she is fully aware of)and now, can do nothing but accept her choice, sadly.
This woman, I'm sure KNOWS that a mammogram is a good idea and has, for the moment, decided against it. What can another do to change her mind other than give the facts and let her decide for herself? It is an unhappy path to take when we try to control what another person does, even if it is for their good.
For example, I am deathly phobic of getting blood tests. I avoid them no matter what....luckily I am super healthy! No matter what anyone said to me I would NOT listen to them about it being a good idea to have my cholesterol checked, etc..!!!! I would be irritated that they were trying to boss me around!!
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