I'm happy to hear that it is effective for you. I'm so curious---do you actually like the way it feels?
My bf (now husband) and I would use the withdrawal method, in addition to my using birth control pills, and I disliked the feeling immensely. To explain without being graphic: having sex would be a pleasant, wonderful experience; sometimes I could kind of mentally "lose myself" in the moment...and then all of a sudden, there is an abrupt stop and he yanks out! argh! I would not be able to relax and "be in the moment" of our love making, when we used the withdrawal method, because I would be tense...wondering when he was going to abruptly, suddenly pull out. I'm just really not sure how any woman would find this enjoyable?!
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I'm happy to hear that it is effective for you. I'm so curious---do you actually like the way it feels?
My bf (now husband) and I would use the withdrawal method, in addition to my using birth control pills, and I disliked the feeling immensely. To explain without being graphic: having sex would be a pleasant, wonderful experience; sometimes I could kind of mentally "lose myself" in the moment...and then all of a sudden, there is an abrupt stop and he yanks out! argh! I would not be able to relax and "be in the moment" of our love making, when we used the withdrawal method, because I would be tense...wondering when he was going to abruptly, suddenly pull out. I'm just really not sure how any woman would find this enjoyable?!
June 21, 2009 - 7:52amThis Comment
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