Another thing that kills me is when women excuse guys actions as "innocent."
Having a scantily clad woman put her genitalia in a man's face is not innocent in the slightest. No matter what your boyfriend/husband says, he's getting extreme sexual satisfaction from another woman. How can you seriously be okay with that? Chances are, in your heart you know it's wrong but you don't want to appear "controlling," or you are trying so hard to be trusting and understanding.
Well, I'm a man, and I'm telling you, having other practically naked wome all over a man is not innocent at all.
I told my girl friend the truth, and that is if another woman were to do that to me, I'd be overcome with guilt... Stop ignoring your gut, your instincts, stand up for what's right...
And the reverse situation- if you're a man, and don't want strippers to be a part of YOUR bachelor night experience, and your wife wants some naked men to oggle-- you're a Saint, and she oughta be ashamed of herself if she doesn't care about what you're comfortable with...
If I was in that situation, point blank... I'd tell her it's not gonna happen. Girls hate it when guys give in to peer pressure and do bad things just because their friends do, right? Well... Same situation in reverse.
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Another thing that kills me is when women excuse guys actions as "innocent."
Having a scantily clad woman put her genitalia in a man's face is not innocent in the slightest. No matter what your boyfriend/husband says, he's getting extreme sexual satisfaction from another woman. How can you seriously be okay with that? Chances are, in your heart you know it's wrong but you don't want to appear "controlling," or you are trying so hard to be trusting and understanding.
Well, I'm a man, and I'm telling you, having other practically naked wome all over a man is not innocent at all.
I told my girl friend the truth, and that is if another woman were to do that to me, I'd be overcome with guilt... Stop ignoring your gut, your instincts, stand up for what's right...
And the reverse situation- if you're a man, and don't want strippers to be a part of YOUR bachelor night experience, and your wife wants some naked men to oggle-- you're a Saint, and she oughta be ashamed of herself if she doesn't care about what you're comfortable with...
If I was in that situation, point blank... I'd tell her it's not gonna happen. Girls hate it when guys give in to peer pressure and do bad things just because their friends do, right? Well... Same situation in reverse.
September 24, 2010 - 12:10pmThis Comment
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