Anonymous, it seems to me that feeling a penis is something you're not supposed to look at may reflect a more general attitude that sex is something you're not really supposed to do, and if you are young, you may get over this feeling as you become accustomed to being an adult. You say that sex is fine, but 'fine' is not a very enthusiastic way to describe sex. Besides their penises, are you otherwise attracted to men? You dont mention if you are married or have a boyfriend, but I suspect that once you develop a close and intimate relationship with a man that you will become used to seeing him naked, and you will begin to stop equating the sight of a naked man to the memories of seeing parts of your father you know you werent supposed to.
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As for the other comments - I agree that men's bodies are not as beautiful as womens (just as there are many species where one sex is more physically attractive than the other). But it is not so that one has to be into a guy to appreciate his body; I for one love penises, and would never describe one as repulsive, hideous, or ridiculous. After all, 'form follows function', and I find a lot of beauty in something so wonderful as that!
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Anonymous, it seems to me that feeling a penis is something you're not supposed to look at may reflect a more general attitude that sex is something you're not really supposed to do, and if you are young, you may get over this feeling as you become accustomed to being an adult. You say that sex is fine, but 'fine' is not a very enthusiastic way to describe sex. Besides their penises, are you otherwise attracted to men? You dont mention if you are married or have a boyfriend, but I suspect that once you develop a close and intimate relationship with a man that you will become used to seeing him naked, and you will begin to stop equating the sight of a naked man to the memories of seeing parts of your father you know you werent supposed to.
July 16, 2009 - 6:55am.
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As for the other comments - I agree that men's bodies are not as beautiful as womens (just as there are many species where one sex is more physically attractive than the other). But it is not so that one has to be into a guy to appreciate his body; I for one love penises, and would never describe one as repulsive, hideous, or ridiculous. After all, 'form follows function', and I find a lot of beauty in something so wonderful as that!
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