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We talked about it (well, I wrote the post after having a brief conversation with him and him ending it in sharing his annoyance that my "default is to have sex every night.")...last night. I told him I didn't feel our prior conversation had been conclusive. He apologized and listened and shared his concerns too. I was able to share everything I had thought about for two days (including the "if I were to have sex once and a while, I may not default to it every night.").

I asked him about his meds and he said that he hasn't changed any...also that he doesn't take any hypertensive meds...just the anti-depressants. But I didn't think about the novelty of a new relationship being a big draw.

He said that we don't have matching sex drives and that he wishes he was 20 and ready to have sex every night. I thought that was strange...because I'd be plenty happy with a few times a week, ya know? I'm not 20 either.

Thanks for your response :)...

I spent several years in France :) I'd love to live a Paris all my life :P But I'd need some family there of some sort :)!