I actually googled: My boyfriend does not want me and it showed me this website.
I have the same problem. Im 21 and he's 28. I really love him. And he loves me as well i think. I feel it.
I think this is the time to have crazy sex, when you can't get enough of each other. Especially we've been dating for 3 months only. But he seems fine with once in couple of days and as the previous girl said when he does it he can't do it again. Even if i try to turn him on again, he can't and we go to sleep. And yeah it doesn't even last that long. What made feel even worse is that I left the country for a month and he missed me, we had phone sex, it was soooo hot. I was waiting for lots of action when i come back but no, same, once and that' it. I feel maybe I don't turn him on, but I am realistic, I understand if I was fat or didn't look after myself, but Im young and quite good looking :)) and I know guys whod be happpppy if i was by their side, i don't want to seem big headed but that's what other people say. I never experienced it before. It hurts so much. I wish I could do as the Anon said dump him, cause the more i wait the more my self esteem gets damaged. I tried nice lingerie but if he doesn't want it, he doesn't it. I remember feeling powerful and sexy and desired in other relationships and now i just feel something wrong with me . It wrong to feel like that when ur 21. I understand if we were together for 5 years already, but just 3 months. I don't know what to do, I love him, but I can't feel like this every day. And people who advise to talk, well i tried it doesn't work, they think they are amazing and somethings wrong with u probably. Maybe he doesn't love me as much. Cause people who r crazy about u they can't get enough of u. U can't even dream of just a spontaneous sex on the kitchen table. Sounds funny, but It actually makes em really sad,. i don't know what to do.
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I actually googled: My boyfriend does not want me and it showed me this website.
August 25, 2009 - 2:23amI have the same problem. Im 21 and he's 28. I really love him. And he loves me as well i think. I feel it.
I think this is the time to have crazy sex, when you can't get enough of each other. Especially we've been dating for 3 months only. But he seems fine with once in couple of days and as the previous girl said when he does it he can't do it again. Even if i try to turn him on again, he can't and we go to sleep. And yeah it doesn't even last that long. What made feel even worse is that I left the country for a month and he missed me, we had phone sex, it was soooo hot. I was waiting for lots of action when i come back but no, same, once and that' it. I feel maybe I don't turn him on, but I am realistic, I understand if I was fat or didn't look after myself, but Im young and quite good looking :)) and I know guys whod be happpppy if i was by their side, i don't want to seem big headed but that's what other people say. I never experienced it before. It hurts so much. I wish I could do as the Anon said dump him, cause the more i wait the more my self esteem gets damaged. I tried nice lingerie but if he doesn't want it, he doesn't it. I remember feeling powerful and sexy and desired in other relationships and now i just feel something wrong with me . It wrong to feel like that when ur 21. I understand if we were together for 5 years already, but just 3 months. I don't know what to do, I love him, but I can't feel like this every day. And people who advise to talk, well i tried it doesn't work, they think they are amazing and somethings wrong with u probably. Maybe he doesn't love me as much. Cause people who r crazy about u they can't get enough of u. U can't even dream of just a spontaneous sex on the kitchen table. Sounds funny, but It actually makes em really sad,. i don't know what to do.
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