I think you should certainly try to sit down and have a heart to heart talk with him to see if he has any concerns. One concern may be pregnancy and he is not ready to be a father. Are you on birth control?
Since this is all new to you both, did you try and educate yourselves on sex prior to engaging in the act? There are many places you can go to obtain information especially Family Planning Centers are great and usually free.
You are both in a place where hormones are strong and since you both are each other’s firsts, there may be a concern about how he makes you feel. Pay attention to the little details of when you guys do have sex. Are you alone? Do you still live at home and are you sneaking? There may be something that makes him uncomfortable at times that doesn’t have to do with you.
Could you try and tell him your feelings? The way you are thinking it is you?
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I think you should certainly try to sit down and have a heart to heart talk with him to see if he has any concerns. One concern may be pregnancy and he is not ready to be a father. Are you on birth control?
July 18, 2009 - 10:17amSince this is all new to you both, did you try and educate yourselves on sex prior to engaging in the act? There are many places you can go to obtain information especially Family Planning Centers are great and usually free.
You are both in a place where hormones are strong and since you both are each other’s firsts, there may be a concern about how he makes you feel. Pay attention to the little details of when you guys do have sex. Are you alone? Do you still live at home and are you sneaking? There may be something that makes him uncomfortable at times that doesn’t have to do with you.
Could you try and tell him your feelings? The way you are thinking it is you?
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