I will admit we do sneak around because we both still live at home. Although, both of us are pretty sure his parents already know but don't find it enough of an issue to confront us. I am on birth control and we have talked about the risks. I don't think he would be worried about becoming a father since there is very little chance that that could happen. I think the sex isn't the problem for him though. It's the oral sex and touching that he SAYS he doesn't want to do anymore, along with having sex, but we don't do it often enough for it to be the main issue. I do think one of his concerns might be the sneaking around even though when we do, he doesn't seem to have a problem with it. Like I said, it's when we talk. He refuses to have sexual convorsations during these phases. I think though that I will try to talk to him about this face to face in a non-pushy way. Any ideas about how to get the conversation going without sounding awkward?
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I will admit we do sneak around because we both still live at home. Although, both of us are pretty sure his parents already know but don't find it enough of an issue to confront us. I am on birth control and we have talked about the risks. I don't think he would be worried about becoming a father since there is very little chance that that could happen. I think the sex isn't the problem for him though. It's the oral sex and touching that he SAYS he doesn't want to do anymore, along with having sex, but we don't do it often enough for it to be the main issue. I do think one of his concerns might be the sneaking around even though when we do, he doesn't seem to have a problem with it. Like I said, it's when we talk. He refuses to have sexual convorsations during these phases. I think though that I will try to talk to him about this face to face in a non-pushy way. Any ideas about how to get the conversation going without sounding awkward?
July 18, 2009 - 10:36amThis Comment
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