Bean... I might be a little late here, maybe not. I also might be wrong and off base but I read this to my husband to get his opinion (just now) and what came out my mouth was... "does he have someone that comes into town or something on a weird schedule as she just described his fluctuation in decision?" His response was relatively quick and he stated, "Sounds to me like there is a possibility that he might have something like Herpes".
Now, I know you are likely highly offended, certainly since you said you were each others firsts, etc.
But I hesitated to comment and mention the possibility and then thought, what if he did... I should at least mention it to her just in case she wants to investigate the possibility! I didn't want you to be at risk if something like that were possible...
I am in my mid thirties now and one thing I have learned along the way is that you can't ever account for SURE whether someone will always be 100% faithful... certainly in teenage and/or early 20's. This is just from my own experiences that I say this. Things happen and trust is good but blind faith is nuts!
The break outs usually last about that long, they are of course related to stress and aren't on a schedule but I have no idea what his stress level is like and/or what other factors might be in play if (hypothetically) it were possible.
The oral thing he can't perform or else you'd want to return the favor and how would he be able to explain that?
I agree with the other ladies, you are quite young, as is he. I know when you are 18 you feel quite grown but as time goes on you realize how young that is! :) So be careful in all your choices... you have so much to look forward to and so many things to still accomplish.
So, if I offended you or hurt your feelings or was off base, please accept my apology in advance!!?? I was honestly offering it to you because my husband was once that age and is, of course, a male... and I thought you deserved the benefit of his instinctual perception.
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Bean... I might be a little late here, maybe not. I also might be wrong and off base but I read this to my husband to get his opinion (just now) and what came out my mouth was... "does he have someone that comes into town or something on a weird schedule as she just described his fluctuation in decision?" His response was relatively quick and he stated, "Sounds to me like there is a possibility that he might have something like Herpes".
Now, I know you are likely highly offended, certainly since you said you were each others firsts, etc.
But I hesitated to comment and mention the possibility and then thought, what if he did... I should at least mention it to her just in case she wants to investigate the possibility! I didn't want you to be at risk if something like that were possible...
I am in my mid thirties now and one thing I have learned along the way is that you can't ever account for SURE whether someone will always be 100% faithful... certainly in teenage and/or early 20's. This is just from my own experiences that I say this. Things happen and trust is good but blind faith is nuts!
The break outs usually last about that long, they are of course related to stress and aren't on a schedule but I have no idea what his stress level is like and/or what other factors might be in play if (hypothetically) it were possible.
The oral thing he can't perform or else you'd want to return the favor and how would he be able to explain that?
I agree with the other ladies, you are quite young, as is he. I know when you are 18 you feel quite grown but as time goes on you realize how young that is! :) So be careful in all your choices... you have so much to look forward to and so many things to still accomplish.
So, if I offended you or hurt your feelings or was off base, please accept my apology in advance!!?? I was honestly offering it to you because my husband was once that age and is, of course, a male... and I thought you deserved the benefit of his instinctual perception.
July 19, 2009 - 4:18pmThis Comment
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