I am glad that you handled it the way you did... I like to be calm about it because guys love to write it off as you "freaking out" or acting "psycho". Why is it that almost every guy in the world will tell you that their ex was a psycho? After some dating, I came to realize that when they said that... 9 times out of 10. The reason she was psycho, was because of something that he did that hurt her and because she was in a relationship and loved the guy... her love turned to anger and she had some emotional yelling ordeal. I hate when guys call women that... not to say there aren't some really crazy girls out there, but they aren't ALL of us!
As far as strip clubs, my husband refuses to go to them... Not to say he wouldn't want to if he was single but he thinks it is stupid to go there while you are married or dating someone seriously. He says it is just putting yourself in a bad place for a guy to be and not invite some issues into the relationship. I am sure if he had a bachelor party for one of his GOOD friends he'd go. I don't care if he does or not, but my rules are: No private dances, no tipping and he'd better NEVER let one of them touch him in any way shape or form!! The reason... he is not giving money to some other woman for dancing around half naked... I can do that if he wants to give his money away! :)
You did great! You are welcome to send a message any time, I love to think all of my lessons (hard earned believe me) weren't for nothing!! Women are supposed to stick together!
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I am glad that you handled it the way you did... I like to be calm about it because guys love to write it off as you "freaking out" or acting "psycho". Why is it that almost every guy in the world will tell you that their ex was a psycho? After some dating, I came to realize that when they said that... 9 times out of 10. The reason she was psycho, was because of something that he did that hurt her and because she was in a relationship and loved the guy... her love turned to anger and she had some emotional yelling ordeal. I hate when guys call women that... not to say there aren't some really crazy girls out there, but they aren't ALL of us!
As far as strip clubs, my husband refuses to go to them... Not to say he wouldn't want to if he was single but he thinks it is stupid to go there while you are married or dating someone seriously. He says it is just putting yourself in a bad place for a guy to be and not invite some issues into the relationship. I am sure if he had a bachelor party for one of his GOOD friends he'd go. I don't care if he does or not, but my rules are: No private dances, no tipping and he'd better NEVER let one of them touch him in any way shape or form!! The reason... he is not giving money to some other woman for dancing around half naked... I can do that if he wants to give his money away! :)
You did great! You are welcome to send a message any time, I love to think all of my lessons (hard earned believe me) weren't for nothing!! Women are supposed to stick together!
July 20, 2009 - 4:12pmThis Comment
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