This sound like you're describing my relationship ! I managed to get him to go to counselling which helped a bit but then we stopped going ( as the councillor thought we didn't need it anymore) but it's gone back to the way it was. Him masturbating and not wanting sex. When we met I felt attractive now I feel terrible and feel like there's no point trying to be feminine etc around him. When we do have sex I have to initiate it,because I'm at my wits end waiting for him to come to me, and I feel like I'm just a body to use for the equivalent of masterbating rather than his hot girlfriend he wants to fuck. My ex was a piece of shit , complete opposite of my current boyfriend, but at least he made me feel on top of the world about my body.
We've talked about the issue so much but nothing helps- apart from me getting used to it and not expecting to have sex.
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This sound like you're describing my relationship ! I managed to get him to go to counselling which helped a bit but then we stopped going ( as the councillor thought we didn't need it anymore) but it's gone back to the way it was. Him masturbating and not wanting sex. When we met I felt attractive now I feel terrible and feel like there's no point trying to be feminine etc around him. When we do have sex I have to initiate it,because I'm at my wits end waiting for him to come to me, and I feel like I'm just a body to use for the equivalent of masterbating rather than his hot girlfriend he wants to fuck. My ex was a piece of shit , complete opposite of my current boyfriend, but at least he made me feel on top of the world about my body.
July 30, 2017 - 4:03amWe've talked about the issue so much but nothing helps- apart from me getting used to it and not expecting to have sex.
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