thank you very much for getting back to me. its really is a relief to hear someone outside of my life tell me that im not crazy! my fiance is very supportive in every aspect of my daughters and my life. financially, mentally. hes a great father also. to answer some of your questions: no we dont get to really ever go out on a date night and just relax. we are struggling alittle bit financially, and we both work six days a week. he a contractor and i am a mail carrier for the post office. by the time we get home and take care of the baby i for one am so exhausted i dont want to go anywhere. and relaxing, forget it! i have become such a high strung person, my mind just never shuts off and relaxes. and i know that has alot to do with the way we have been clashing lately. as far as holding hands and tickling or just playing around with eachother, we dont. but thats not him its me. everytime he trys to play with me i get upset because i feel emotionally that i dont want to be touched. no more cuddling, kisses, or anything of the sort. AND THAT HAS NEVER BEEN ME!!!! i understand that it probably is hormonal but at the same time its scares me to death. i would love to see a counselor and know it would do me alot of good but its just so hard to find the time to go between being a full time employee and a mom.
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thank you very much for getting back to me. its really is a relief to hear someone outside of my life tell me that im not crazy! my fiance is very supportive in every aspect of my daughters and my life. financially, mentally. hes a great father also. to answer some of your questions: no we dont get to really ever go out on a date night and just relax. we are struggling alittle bit financially, and we both work six days a week. he a contractor and i am a mail carrier for the post office. by the time we get home and take care of the baby i for one am so exhausted i dont want to go anywhere. and relaxing, forget it! i have become such a high strung person, my mind just never shuts off and relaxes. and i know that has alot to do with the way we have been clashing lately. as far as holding hands and tickling or just playing around with eachother, we dont. but thats not him its me. everytime he trys to play with me i get upset because i feel emotionally that i dont want to be touched. no more cuddling, kisses, or anything of the sort. AND THAT HAS NEVER BEEN ME!!!! i understand that it probably is hormonal but at the same time its scares me to death. i would love to see a counselor and know it would do me alot of good but its just so hard to find the time to go between being a full time employee and a mom.
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