I'd say you probably aren't pregnant. The back discomfort may be due to your previous back condition, or the fact that you are about to get your period again. Give it a few days.
Having tiny bumps could be a worry, especially if they're painful or itchy in any way. If they're not, then it could just be that you never noticed the skin down there does have tiny little pores, like bumps. It's also possible to get pimples down there. But if it's itchy or painful, it could be a sexually-transmitted disease. You'd definitely want to tell your mom, and see a doctor.
I think you're probably not ready to have a heavy kissing/physical relationship, especially if you know you're someone "who can't say no." You're putting yourself into a position where you can be pushed into something you don't want. I don't think you want to be a young woman who is pregnant or has a sexually-transmitted disease, but you're putting yourself at risk for that. You need to protect yourself.
Give yourself some time to grow into a strong woman. You are doing things that could have big consequences and make your life very difficult. Why give yourself such worries? Life is more fun when you're not worried about babies or diseases.
I'd stay FAR away from the guy who didn't listen to you when you told him NO. I'm a bit older than you, but if someone did that to me now, I would be screaming NO and pounding on his chest or pushing him away, and kicking my legs. That's a normal reaction--and you should know it's perfectly okay to do that. I don't think you should just let someone impose his will on you like that. That is NOT okay. He needs to learn to treat you with RESPECT--you're not just someone he can do what he wants with--you're a person, too. It's even ruder when you know he won't have to live with the consequence of his actions, but YOU might. What a selfish boy. And a warning, there are a lot of them out there. Don't let yourself get pulled in by them. They are not worth it.
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I'd say you probably aren't pregnant. The back discomfort may be due to your previous back condition, or the fact that you are about to get your period again. Give it a few days.
Having tiny bumps could be a worry, especially if they're painful or itchy in any way. If they're not, then it could just be that you never noticed the skin down there does have tiny little pores, like bumps. It's also possible to get pimples down there. But if it's itchy or painful, it could be a sexually-transmitted disease. You'd definitely want to tell your mom, and see a doctor.
I think you're probably not ready to have a heavy kissing/physical relationship, especially if you know you're someone "who can't say no." You're putting yourself into a position where you can be pushed into something you don't want. I don't think you want to be a young woman who is pregnant or has a sexually-transmitted disease, but you're putting yourself at risk for that. You need to protect yourself.
Give yourself some time to grow into a strong woman. You are doing things that could have big consequences and make your life very difficult. Why give yourself such worries? Life is more fun when you're not worried about babies or diseases.
I'd stay FAR away from the guy who didn't listen to you when you told him NO. I'm a bit older than you, but if someone did that to me now, I would be screaming NO and pounding on his chest or pushing him away, and kicking my legs. That's a normal reaction--and you should know it's perfectly okay to do that. I don't think you should just let someone impose his will on you like that. That is NOT okay. He needs to learn to treat you with RESPECT--you're not just someone he can do what he wants with--you're a person, too. It's even ruder when you know he won't have to live with the consequence of his actions, but YOU might. What a selfish boy. And a warning, there are a lot of them out there. Don't let yourself get pulled in by them. They are not worth it.
August 1, 2009 - 9:52pmThis Comment
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