Feminism is considered "a bad word", as you put it, in these days, because a lot of feminists have taken it from rational reasons of defending themselves against discrimination to provide equality, to whatever they say goes. Porn isn't evil. Men are naturally more sexually stimulated than woman. I know numerous couples who are extremely happy, including married couples, that have a healthy relationship (emotional and sexual), but the man sometimes watching porn and masturbates to it.
It isn't fair to expect a man to be sexually frustrated all of the time when it is more healthy to masturbate at least one or two times a week. I'm not saying as a substitute for, sex, but as a way to release when his partner is not feeling sexual.
Maybe instead of getting irate at the idea of a man being horny, or waiting for HIM to try and invite you to join, you should invite yourself. While he's watching porn, walk in, completely naked, and say "wouldn't you rather fuck this?" and give a flirty wink. I know no man that would refuse. If he does, I think that the relationship has deeper problems.
If you actually love this person, talk to them and work with them, stop the angry accusations of how the recent generations of men are broken because of porn. Porn has been around for centuries.
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Feminism is considered "a bad word", as you put it, in these days, because a lot of feminists have taken it from rational reasons of defending themselves against discrimination to provide equality, to whatever they say goes. Porn isn't evil. Men are naturally more sexually stimulated than woman. I know numerous couples who are extremely happy, including married couples, that have a healthy relationship (emotional and sexual), but the man sometimes watching porn and masturbates to it.
It isn't fair to expect a man to be sexually frustrated all of the time when it is more healthy to masturbate at least one or two times a week. I'm not saying as a substitute for, sex, but as a way to release when his partner is not feeling sexual.
Maybe instead of getting irate at the idea of a man being horny, or waiting for HIM to try and invite you to join, you should invite yourself. While he's watching porn, walk in, completely naked, and say "wouldn't you rather fuck this?" and give a flirty wink. I know no man that would refuse. If he does, I think that the relationship has deeper problems.
If you actually love this person, talk to them and work with them, stop the angry accusations of how the recent generations of men are broken because of porn. Porn has been around for centuries.
Take some responsibility for your lover for once.
December 7, 2009 - 7:43pmThis Comment
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