When they get very angry like this, it's because they are in denial of their addiction. You can't make an addict change, you can just decide that you won't live with being second best to these vile images of degradation. If a man can masturbate as often as some of you say he is, he can have sex with you. He just chooses not to as he is addicted to pornography. He will probably keep doing it until someone breaks up with him over it or until he realizes that he prefers it to real sex with a real human being and sees that this is a negative thing. Read this book;Robert Jensen, Getting Off: Pornography and the End of Masculinity. Or check out this site;http://www.oneangrygirl.net/antipornbooks.html
Porn is insidious and is destroying our relationships mostly because fo the internet and how there is no end to the images available. Men get angry and defensive as any addict would; an alcoholic is the same.
Women need to start saying that porn is NOT ok. How would your man fee if you refused sex with him and then he caught you with your vibrator evry day. Hurt, right?
But he may choose porn over you. If he does, it's time to move on. Why would you want to be in a relatinship where you don't get your needs met and have to deal with negative addiction? Surely you are worth more? There are lots of men out there who actually lOVE to have sex with a real woman!
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When they get very angry like this, it's because they are in denial of their addiction. You can't make an addict change, you can just decide that you won't live with being second best to these vile images of degradation. If a man can masturbate as often as some of you say he is, he can have sex with you. He just chooses not to as he is addicted to pornography. He will probably keep doing it until someone breaks up with him over it or until he realizes that he prefers it to real sex with a real human being and sees that this is a negative thing. Read this book;Robert Jensen, Getting Off: Pornography and the End of Masculinity. Or check out this site;http://www.oneangrygirl.net/antipornbooks.html
February 4, 2010 - 11:54amPorn is insidious and is destroying our relationships mostly because fo the internet and how there is no end to the images available. Men get angry and defensive as any addict would; an alcoholic is the same.
Women need to start saying that porn is NOT ok. How would your man fee if you refused sex with him and then he caught you with your vibrator evry day. Hurt, right?
But he may choose porn over you. If he does, it's time to move on. Why would you want to be in a relatinship where you don't get your needs met and have to deal with negative addiction? Surely you are worth more? There are lots of men out there who actually lOVE to have sex with a real woman!
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