Kirb,
I would agree that if you had sex four weeks after your previous period, you probably were not ovulating. I would guess that you're just later than normal, possibly due to how the stress is affecting your hormones or possibly just due to the fact that you're irregular. I was irregular until my early 20s, including sometimes missing a period entirely.
Do you think your mom knows you are this serious about your boyfriend? I agree with Alysia, it sounds like you have a good relationship with her and it might be best to talk about this with her. At this point, I might wait until you know for sure that you are or are not pregnant. If you are pregnant, you will have to find a time where things are quiet and you can have a good talk -- and there just wouldn't be any way to have her not be disappointed, but she would also be the best one in the world to help support you and figure out what to do next. If you are not pregnant, you may still want to find that quiet time and talk to her about the fact that you are serious enough about this boyfriend to be sexually involved with him. Do you think you would be able to do that?
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Kirb,
I would agree that if you had sex four weeks after your previous period, you probably were not ovulating. I would guess that you're just later than normal, possibly due to how the stress is affecting your hormones or possibly just due to the fact that you're irregular. I was irregular until my early 20s, including sometimes missing a period entirely.
Do you think your mom knows you are this serious about your boyfriend? I agree with Alysia, it sounds like you have a good relationship with her and it might be best to talk about this with her. At this point, I might wait until you know for sure that you are or are not pregnant. If you are pregnant, you will have to find a time where things are quiet and you can have a good talk -- and there just wouldn't be any way to have her not be disappointed, but she would also be the best one in the world to help support you and figure out what to do next. If you are not pregnant, you may still want to find that quiet time and talk to her about the fact that you are serious enough about this boyfriend to be sexually involved with him. Do you think you would be able to do that?
August 26, 2009 - 9:04amThis Comment
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