My bf is 23 and I'm 28. And besides the age gap is also a cultural gap. He's Indian and I'm Hispanic. Sometimes I feel bad especially those nights when he goes party with his college buddies and I have to go sleep early because I work the next day. Many times I've thought about leaving this relationship and find a man that has his stuff together that wants a home and a family. It's only 5 year difference and we love eachother a lot but I feel that I don't have that security that an older man can provide. He told me the other day that he wants us to try for a baby which is something I want and he is very hard working so I know he'd be responsibe but it scares me to some point. It's difficult because to some point, the man always has to end up being the provider. ie: in the case of me having a complicated pregnancy and me not being able to work.
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My bf is 23 and I'm 28. And besides the age gap is also a cultural gap. He's Indian and I'm Hispanic. Sometimes I feel bad especially those nights when he goes party with his college buddies and I have to go sleep early because I work the next day. Many times I've thought about leaving this relationship and find a man that has his stuff together that wants a home and a family. It's only 5 year difference and we love eachother a lot but I feel that I don't have that security that an older man can provide. He told me the other day that he wants us to try for a baby which is something I want and he is very hard working so I know he'd be responsibe but it scares me to some point. It's difficult because to some point, the man always has to end up being the provider. ie: in the case of me having a complicated pregnancy and me not being able to work.
January 29, 2012 - 8:11amThis Comment
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