Our problem hasn't really been a matter of enjoyment- He actually says that he enjoys slow, passionate sex very much- it just doesn't "send him over." Your advice is helpful though. Since I last posted my boyfriend and I had a conversation about this. He's been trying to better educate himself on the matter, and he brought up that he's begun to realize that orgasm is connected more to thoughts/emotions then he had previously thought. This piece of information seems to have set off a sort of light bulb in his head and he is now "training" himself. So far, it's going great. Climax is coming easier to him in slow positions and sex has become more enjoyable for both of us. For other women who've faced this issue I DEFINITELY recommend trying to solve the problem together. Since this was something he needed to reprogram in his own mind there's no way I could have solved it all on my own.
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Thank you Rosa,
Our problem hasn't really been a matter of enjoyment- He actually says that he enjoys slow, passionate sex very much- it just doesn't "send him over." Your advice is helpful though. Since I last posted my boyfriend and I had a conversation about this. He's been trying to better educate himself on the matter, and he brought up that he's begun to realize that orgasm is connected more to thoughts/emotions then he had previously thought. This piece of information seems to have set off a sort of light bulb in his head and he is now "training" himself. So far, it's going great. Climax is coming easier to him in slow positions and sex has become more enjoyable for both of us. For other women who've faced this issue I DEFINITELY recommend trying to solve the problem together. Since this was something he needed to reprogram in his own mind there's no way I could have solved it all on my own.
September 30, 2009 - 12:50pmThis Comment
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