Kudos to you for leaving this man and knowing that there was something wrong with this picture. I am very sorry you've been put in this situation. As sick as his fantasy is to me, I guess this is the reason why they make this type of porn- some have shoe fetishes, toe fetishes, and others have young virgin fetishes. The problem with this is that he didn't just seem to have these young virgin fetishes (I sure hope he wasn't looking for child pornography) but he had a fetish of having sex with his own daughter, which is one fetish I have never heard of unless you are somehow some type of pedophile.
As ill-minded as this may be, a fetish is one thing, but actually thinking about conceiving with you and "teaching" your children about sex at a young age is inappropriate in so many ways. It can actually be a very normal comment from someone who is saying "maybe we should start to talk to our 12 year old about sex" but not for someone who fantasizes about having sex with his young daughter.
I really don't know if what you are looking for is legal advice, seeing as he really hasn't done anything illegal (or that we know of, anyway). If you have seen him looking or engaging in child pornography or anything that you suspect to be illegal, perhaps you may want to contact your local authorities to see what can be done.
Since he has a 6 year old daughter, I think you may want to share this with her mother or next of kin. I know I would not want him near my daughter. What are you planning on doing with your child since he will be likely to ask for shared custody? Are you afraid for him/her? Please seek legal advice about this-- child molestation is not something to be taken lightly.
Please take a look at this site for more information on how to report pedophilia: http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/487529/how_to_report_a_suspected_pedophile.html?cat=17
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Lumina,
Kudos to you for leaving this man and knowing that there was something wrong with this picture. I am very sorry you've been put in this situation. As sick as his fantasy is to me, I guess this is the reason why they make this type of porn- some have shoe fetishes, toe fetishes, and others have young virgin fetishes. The problem with this is that he didn't just seem to have these young virgin fetishes (I sure hope he wasn't looking for child pornography) but he had a fetish of having sex with his own daughter, which is one fetish I have never heard of unless you are somehow some type of pedophile.
As ill-minded as this may be, a fetish is one thing, but actually thinking about conceiving with you and "teaching" your children about sex at a young age is inappropriate in so many ways. It can actually be a very normal comment from someone who is saying "maybe we should start to talk to our 12 year old about sex" but not for someone who fantasizes about having sex with his young daughter.
I really don't know if what you are looking for is legal advice, seeing as he really hasn't done anything illegal (or that we know of, anyway). If you have seen him looking or engaging in child pornography or anything that you suspect to be illegal, perhaps you may want to contact your local authorities to see what can be done.
Since he has a 6 year old daughter, I think you may want to share this with her mother or next of kin. I know I would not want him near my daughter. What are you planning on doing with your child since he will be likely to ask for shared custody? Are you afraid for him/her? Please seek legal advice about this-- child molestation is not something to be taken lightly.
Please take a look at this site for more information on how to report pedophilia: http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/487529/how_to_report_a_suspected_pedophile.html?cat=17
Good Luck, please keep us posted.
October 6, 2009 - 5:22amThis Comment
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