I can tell that you are a thoughtful, smart woman who has considered all the aspects of this situation and wants to do the best for all involved. With that said, I agree with Rosa -- your first responsibility has to be to the 6-year-old girl and your own child. He said things to you that are not appropriate -- for instance, teaching very young children about sexual things, and wanting you to pretend that you were his daughter. That frightens me, considering that he has a young daughter himself.
You say he looks at young teen porn and incest porn on the internet -- please know that if young teens or children are involved in those photos, then the photos themselves are illegal.
I think you need to trust your intuition here. You are worried for good cause. Yes, if I were you, like Rosa, I would tell the mother of the 6-year-old child. And I would seek legal counseling about child custody issues for your own child. Does he know you are pregnant? Does he know where you live?
You are a strong woman. I know, because you were able to leave him when he became abusive to you. Hang in there and make your first concern the safety of your baby and his daughter. And please do write back.
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Lumina,
I can tell that you are a thoughtful, smart woman who has considered all the aspects of this situation and wants to do the best for all involved. With that said, I agree with Rosa -- your first responsibility has to be to the 6-year-old girl and your own child. He said things to you that are not appropriate -- for instance, teaching very young children about sexual things, and wanting you to pretend that you were his daughter. That frightens me, considering that he has a young daughter himself.
You say he looks at young teen porn and incest porn on the internet -- please know that if young teens or children are involved in those photos, then the photos themselves are illegal.
I think you need to trust your intuition here. You are worried for good cause. Yes, if I were you, like Rosa, I would tell the mother of the 6-year-old child. And I would seek legal counseling about child custody issues for your own child. Does he know you are pregnant? Does he know where you live?
You are a strong woman. I know, because you were able to leave him when he became abusive to you. Hang in there and make your first concern the safety of your baby and his daughter. And please do write back.
October 6, 2009 - 9:55amThis Comment
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