I am stuggling here. My boyfriend is 41 and I am 26 we have been together for 7 1/2yrs and when we first got together I was able to turn him on with a look and we were going at it all the time, then it became 1x a week, and now I feel like its a struggle to go at it 1x a month, he always tells me he feels so bad and like a failure about it, he says that it's not that I don't turn him on. He just is so worn out and tired and doesnt feel sexy by the end of the day. He says that he doesnt want to lose me. I tell him he wont lose me over it, but I struggle I am always ready to go, and it gets hard sometimes to put that feeling away. Any advise? I know he loves me that is not a question, but sometimes I cant help but feel like he just doesnt find me attractive anymore.
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I am stuggling here. My boyfriend is 41 and I am 26 we have been together for 7 1/2yrs and when we first got together I was able to turn him on with a look and we were going at it all the time, then it became 1x a week, and now I feel like its a struggle to go at it 1x a month, he always tells me he feels so bad and like a failure about it, he says that it's not that I don't turn him on. He just is so worn out and tired and doesnt feel sexy by the end of the day. He says that he doesnt want to lose me. I tell him he wont lose me over it, but I struggle I am always ready to go, and it gets hard sometimes to put that feeling away. Any advise? I know he loves me that is not a question, but sometimes I cant help but feel like he just doesnt find me attractive anymore.
September 25, 2014 - 9:54amThis Comment
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