I love your reply, but after reading every "problem" that different women are having on here, I feel as though mine may be WAAAAY different.
I knew my boyfriend many years ago (15) and we would just "hang out" and then have sex. Years later he reached out to me and we started an AMAZING relationship: sexually blew my mind,mentally amazing, and emotionally the best man any one could ever want. Now it's been over a year and a half and we live together. We have sex maybe once every three months. I'm 36 years old and sex is on my mind constantly. He's 38 and says he's just not interested in it at all. I've told him how much I hurt and cry about feeling so unwanted and unattractive, but he says its just "him" now. He doesn't know if it may be because he used women for years or because he is just not interested, but I'm in so much pain. I cook for him, make his lunches, clean the house, spoil him, PLUS have two kids and a 60+ hour a week career.
I'm at so much of a loss. I don't know what to do. I love him, but I miss having ANY intimacy other than a peck before he goes to work or bed.
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I love your reply, but after reading every "problem" that different women are having on here, I feel as though mine may be WAAAAY different.
I knew my boyfriend many years ago (15) and we would just "hang out" and then have sex. Years later he reached out to me and we started an AMAZING relationship: sexually blew my mind,mentally amazing, and emotionally the best man any one could ever want. Now it's been over a year and a half and we live together. We have sex maybe once every three months. I'm 36 years old and sex is on my mind constantly. He's 38 and says he's just not interested in it at all. I've told him how much I hurt and cry about feeling so unwanted and unattractive, but he says its just "him" now. He doesn't know if it may be because he used women for years or because he is just not interested, but I'm in so much pain. I cook for him, make his lunches, clean the house, spoil him, PLUS have two kids and a 60+ hour a week career.
I'm at so much of a loss. I don't know what to do. I love him, but I miss having ANY intimacy other than a peck before he goes to work or bed.
May 26, 2015 - 12:34amThis Comment
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