Hi Alison,
I appreciate your thoughts and have def tried the open honesty thing, he knows how I feel, but doesn't seem to care, I guess the word would be.. I've told him I just want to have sex, and I'll do the foreplay thing.. but after sex just want to relax.. and not have to constantly give handy's.. but he always ends up trying to pressure me to do it.. ugh.
2 minutes is the average!? What? and the guy cums? That would be a miracle with what I'm working with.. 20 minutes minimum.. and again, not from sex. only manual stimulation. I don't mean to put all the blame on him, but I just feel like he wants what he wants, and screw me.. I just wish there was a cure, ya know.. We love each other, and I don't want this to be the end of things. I am open, and all, he isn't.. I think it was the way he was raised, he always says, some things are private.. Well.. some things need to get medical attention.. Any more advice with this additional info?
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Hi Alison,
I appreciate your thoughts and have def tried the open honesty thing, he knows how I feel, but doesn't seem to care, I guess the word would be.. I've told him I just want to have sex, and I'll do the foreplay thing.. but after sex just want to relax.. and not have to constantly give handy's.. but he always ends up trying to pressure me to do it.. ugh.
2 minutes is the average!? What? and the guy cums? That would be a miracle with what I'm working with.. 20 minutes minimum.. and again, not from sex. only manual stimulation. I don't mean to put all the blame on him, but I just feel like he wants what he wants, and screw me.. I just wish there was a cure, ya know.. We love each other, and I don't want this to be the end of things. I am open, and all, he isn't.. I think it was the way he was raised, he always says, some things are private.. Well.. some things need to get medical attention.. Any more advice with this additional info?
Thanx.
November 2, 2009 - 2:49amThis Comment
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